This is the topic on which I always had lot to say . On which so many people get confused ,the difference between needing someone and wanting someone. When I analyzed the people around me ,who call themselves as my friends and so called Relatives then I realized That most of the people need me and not wants me.
Needing someone during sadness or crises is human behaviour but needing that person constantly is suffocating.Most of the people confuse NEEDING someone with LOVING them. But both of this terms are not even related. 'Cause when you need someone you lose your independence as you are always reliant on another person.You forget your self existence and feelin' of being alone with your own thought, You always gets dependent on other person..Sometimes people believe that they love someone and that they want them so badly while in fact they just need them because they don't have any other choices or They don't have anyone to stand by them or they are so lonely and which become the need of love and he/she might fall for the first person who makes him/her feel important..In such a case they didn't want the person but they needed them and that's why they fell in love with them..Love always disappear when the need gets over.Needing someone is just like buying the ticket for dependency.
But on other hand wanting someone is entirely different. You wants people in your life because they make you smile, they make you happier and time runs away when they are around. When you want someone you don't need them all the time, you don't get dependent on them and can do your work by your own. You don't need them to be, you just want them to be.When you wants someone in your life, you want them there because life is more fun with them by your side. You are complete person without them,but you know that they make you happy. You are pretty much not dependent on them.
The difference between need and want is the difference between dependency and love. Loving someone and getting dependent on someone is entirely different. And loving someone is much more beautiful and rewarding than leaning on them for all things, 24*7.
I can only speak for myself here,but I definitely don't want a partner who I "need" in my life to survive. Just like I don't want my partner to need me. Because that is not fair at all.!!
"Everyone comes in your life for a reason, Those who don't STAY."
Needing someone during sadness or crises is human behaviour but needing that person constantly is suffocating.Most of the people confuse NEEDING someone with LOVING them. But both of this terms are not even related. 'Cause when you need someone you lose your independence as you are always reliant on another person.You forget your self existence and feelin' of being alone with your own thought, You always gets dependent on other person..Sometimes people believe that they love someone and that they want them so badly while in fact they just need them because they don't have any other choices or They don't have anyone to stand by them or they are so lonely and which become the need of love and he/she might fall for the first person who makes him/her feel important..In such a case they didn't want the person but they needed them and that's why they fell in love with them..Love always disappear when the need gets over.Needing someone is just like buying the ticket for dependency.
But on other hand wanting someone is entirely different. You wants people in your life because they make you smile, they make you happier and time runs away when they are around. When you want someone you don't need them all the time, you don't get dependent on them and can do your work by your own. You don't need them to be, you just want them to be.When you wants someone in your life, you want them there because life is more fun with them by your side. You are complete person without them,but you know that they make you happy. You are pretty much not dependent on them.
The difference between need and want is the difference between dependency and love. Loving someone and getting dependent on someone is entirely different. And loving someone is much more beautiful and rewarding than leaning on them for all things, 24*7.
I can only speak for myself here,but I definitely don't want a partner who I "need" in my life to survive. Just like I don't want my partner to need me. Because that is not fair at all.!!
"Everyone comes in your life for a reason, Those who don't STAY."
